Surrounding environment plays the most important role
in forming your thoughts. The people around you and the daily situations you
come across make your personality. Your actions and decisions are directly influence
by the people you are surrounded with. If you’re
surrounded by negative people then you will also be not so positive about the
situations. For example- if people around you are frustrating, shouting at each
other then you will end up with the same mood and frustration.
If you want to be a creative person then it’s
necessary that you should surround yourself with creative things, art, and creative
people. You have to constantly look for creative ideas from everywhere. Dull
surrounding and dull people will not give you any creative ideas.
Let’s take this in a healthy
way. If you decide to lose weight and get a beach body for summer but
your refrigerator and your kitchen is full of chips, cola, cake, soda and other
unhealthy food then it gets very difficult for you to resist the temptation.
And you will end up eating one of those things and the workout you did at the gym is in vain. So if you working on a plan of losing weight then the first thing you should do is remove all the
things from your surrounding that can tempt to eat. Ignore meeting the people
who doesn’t support you or influence you in your decision.
Family
and friends also play the important role
in shaping your thoughts and actions. If they don’t trust your decisions then you lose trust
in yourself, if they think that you cannot do it then you also start
thinking that maybe seriously you can’t do it. On the other hands if your
parents are supportive then you can achieve anything you want.
The people in your office or in college also change your thoughts. If you are
engaged with smart and intelligent people then you also ended up with smart
decisions. They mentor you and help you to choose the right thing. They teach you to handle
different situations, but if your company is some people who are lazy, inactive
and don’t involve themselves in activities then you will also become lazy and
postpone the things. Make smart, hardworking
and supportive friends.
Don’t afraid to opt for new opportunities because
sometimes your present work or job is not the one you wanted and it’s making you frustrated. So, don’t afraid to
take any other opportunity.
If you want to be influenced by other great people
then you should also be influencing others. You can shape your own behavior and personality which can be
influential for others.
